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ABUSE: Understanding what it is.
There are many forms of abuse:
Physical Abuse -- Sexual Abuse -- Emotional Abuse -- Spiritual Abuse.

Domestic Violence is not just about physical abuse.
Abusive partners use many forms of abuse.
It is important to know and be able to recognize what abuse is,
and what you can do about it.


The Wheel of Violence
At the Center: Abuse of Power
  Characteristics of
Abusive Partners

Abusive people typically
think they are unique, so
different from other people
that they don't have to
follow the same rules
as everyone else.

Actually, abusers have a
lot in common with
one another and share
a great many thinking
patterns and behaviors.

These may include:

Excuse Making
Blaming
Success Fantasies
Lying
Assuming
Being Above the Rules
Making Fools of Others
Minimizing
Vagueness
Anger
Power Plays
Playing Victim
Drama and Excitement
Being  A Closed Channel
Ownership
Self-glorification

Develop Your Own
PERSONAL SAFETY PLAN
Click  here to create your own
Personal Safety Plan.
Be prepared to be safe.


What is Spiritual Abuse?

Abuse of power can be wielded in the spiritual realm as well. It can be subtle or blatant, and the abuser may be a minister, spouse, or family member. It's important to understand that Spiritual Abuse isn't just something that happens in cults.
Learn More About Spiritual Abuse


Healing The Hurt
Can the damage be undone?


Finding Support

How can I find support
in my own community?

email heartmenders@flash.net